NEW<\/span>You can now listen to Fox News articles!\n <\/p>\n<\/div>\n A frustrated husband drew sympathy online after sharing that his in-laws “always want to go everywhere” with him and his wife, leaving him feeling more like a chauffeur and trip planner.<\/p>\n The man explained in Reddit\u2019s “Am I the A–hole?” forum that his wife\u2019s parents join them on nearly every weekend outing and vacation.<\/a> Whether it\u2019s a day trip to a park in New Jersey, a visit to Manhattan or even an out-of-state getaway, his wife “doesn\u2019t see anything wrong” with her parents tagging along.<\/p>\n “She says that she is their only child and if her parents don\u2019t go out with us, they do not go out,” the husband wrote, adding he would not mind them joining occasionally.\u00a0<\/p>\n NEW DAD SPARKS DEBATE FOR WANTING SOLO VACATION WITH BABY, LEAVING MOM BEHIND<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n At one point, his wife even uninvited her mother and told her it was because her husband didn’t want them joining.<\/p>\n “Am I being unreasonable for objecting to them coming along so often?” he asked in the online post.<\/p>\n The husband said his in-laws join him and his wife (not pictured) on nearly every weekend outing and vacation.<\/span> (iStock)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n Reddit users overwhelmingly sided with him, ruling he was “NTA,” short for “Not the A–hole.”<\/p>\n “They\u2019re third wheeling and intrusive,” one commenter said.<\/p>\n FAMILY VACATION DRAMA ERUPTS OVER GRANDMOTHER’S REQUEST FOR DINNER WITH HER GROWN KIDS ONLY<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n “Only child or not, your wife should not be solely responsible for her parents’ social life,”<\/a> someone else said. “If they choose not to have friends or not to go places with friends they have, that isn’t on either of you.”<\/p>\n Many criticized the wife for putting her husband in this position.<\/p>\n “You have a wife problem, not an in-law problem,” one person wrote.<\/p>\n Another agreed: “She is an [a–hole] to do this to you.”<\/p>\n PARENTS CRASHING HONEYMOONS BECOMES BIZARRE NEW TRAVEL TREND FOR MODERN NEWLYWEDS<\/u><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n But some readers argued he should have anticipated the dynamic before marriage.<\/p>\n “Seems a little late to be upset now,” one person said.<\/p>\n The man’s dilemma sparked a heated discussion on Reddit\u2019s “AITA” forum.<\/span> (iStock)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n “If you knew this and entered into their family willingly and now want to flip things, I\u2019m going to have to say that [you’re the a–hole],” someone else said.<\/p>\n Others encouraged compromise and communication.<\/p>\n “You need to sit your wife down and have this conversation,” one person said. “Just because she wants them at something doesn’t mean she gets to dictate what you do all the time as a couple.”<\/p>\n CLICK HERE TO SIGN UP FOR OUR LIFESTYLE NEWSLETTER<\/u><\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n “Parents wanting to spend time with their daughter is fine, your wife being chill with that is fine, you not wanting QUITE so much time with them is fine,” someone else said. “The best way forward will probably involve compromise on both sides.”<\/p>\n Nari Jeter, a licensed marriage and family therapist from Tallahassee, Florida, told Fox News Digital no one is necessarily at fault.<\/p>\n “They just all have different boundaries and expectations,”<\/a> Jeter said. “It is totally valid and reasonable for him to want to spend some Saturdays and vacations exclusively with his wife.”<\/p>\n For more Lifestyle articles, visit foxnews.com\/lifestyle<\/u><\/strong><\/i><\/a><\/p>\n She advised the husband to set clear boundaries.<\/p>\n “Saying, \u2018Can we spend less time with your family?\u2019 is vague,” she said. “But saying, ‘I’d like to take one solo vacation with you a year and one family vacation<\/a> a year’ is more specific.”<\/p>\n One family therapist said the husband should set clear boundaries with his wife and that her parents (not pictured) should respect their marriage.<\/span> (iStock)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n Or he could encourage his wife to do more things with her family without him, she added.\u00a0<\/p>\n Jeter said the wife shouldn\u2019t feel responsible for her parents\u2019 social life and that her parents should reassure her that it\u2019s healthy for her to spend time with her husband alone.<\/p>\n![\"Husband](\"https:\/\/a57.foxnews.com\/static.foxnews.com\/foxnews.com\/content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/1200\/675\/husband-wife-inlaw-vacation-travel-drama.jpg?ve=1&tl=1\")
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